10 things married couples can do to KEEP porn OUT of the marriage: 1. Mutual agreement to abstain: Agree together not to consume pornography individually or together, recognizing the devastating harm it can or will cause in your relationship. 2. Clear communication: Discuss openly and honestly about each other’s views on pornography and its impact on your marriage. 3. Accountability: Establish a system of mutual accountability where both spouses commit to supporting each other in abstaining from