I LET MY SON-IN-LAW "FIND" MY BANK STATEMENT. THEN MY LAWYER CALLED ABOUT THE NAME ON THE WIRE TRANSFER. My daughter Emma got married two weeks ago. Her new husband, Jake, is perfect. Too perfect. The day after the wedding, he sat in my kitchen and slid a thick envelope across the table. “Just some family planning,” he said with a bright, empty smile. Inside were legal papers. A clause about a “Parental Asset Consolidation Fund” he would manage. He wanted my savings. The money my late husband, D